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Hi Everyone!

We have had our dog for two years and he is very socialised and so quite playful and in no way aggressive with dogs he meets, and really enjoys the company of other dogs. We are now fostering another dog who is smaller and have until friday to see whether he is a good fit. Although a very sweet loving dog he is only used to humans and only seems to want human attention. He seems a bit put off by our dog wanting to play and ignores him. He also, being so used to human only attention tries to get in the way when we pet our dog and our dog has now started trying to do the same, which is not in his nature, he has never minded us cuddling other dogs. He also tried to stop the new one coming up the stairs and growled at him and I believe he wouldnt be acting jealous if the new one would play with him too, so he's quite put out that the other one runs away only from him and towards only us, and i think is generally feeling left out no matter how many cuddles we give! Im a little anxious as we only have a couple of days to decide, which may not be long enough to get them to bond and although we already like the new dog very very much our dog is the priority until we decide to def take the new one. Any Advice on getting them to play/bond/sit together? I think the main problem is that the new doggy keeps looking to us for all attention and contact and i want to let him know that he can get that from my dog too. I think the room where my dog usually sleeps i should maybe keep the other dog out of so he still has his own territory and the new one can sleep with my mum, as he is hopefully going to be her main dog anyway. They are both two, and our dog is a cavalier and the new one is a tibetan spaniel shih tzu cross. Any advice would be much appreciated as I cant stand to think of the new dog not feeling accepted, or my dog feeling pushed out!! Thanks!
 
Sometimes it takes a bit of time especially if one dog has been around longer than the other.

The key for me is to treat them the same as much as possible until they have figured out who is boss. I don't buy into the general pack leader theory too much but there is definitely hierarchy between dogs but overall you make the rules.

I don't know if you use crates but your new addition (and even your exisiting dog) may just need his own space and it maybe a good idea to introduce a place for them to individually go to while they get to know each other better.

Over time they will develop and understand who is the boss, but they will sometimes have there disagreements.

Even buying two of the same toy for example might mean that the one dog wants the other dogs toy for a while but you are reducing possible problems.

Personally, I do think that Friday is probably too soon to make a definite 100% decision whether it'll work, but you might get a small idea by then.

Someone else with a little more experience might be able to suggest something else.
 
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Oh dear, sometimes things never quite pan out as we want them to.

I am not sure it is quite long enough to know if things will pan out and I think it sounds much like a couple of squabbling jealous kids.

You definitely need some proper advice which I don't think I should give as I am not as experienced as others on here and wouldn't want to make things worse for you.

However, I would like to welcome you to Dog Forum, I am Anna :)

Oh and all the none dog chat goes on down here:

http://www.dogforum.co.uk/forum/22-the-dog-duck/
 
Thanks guys nice to meet you! Yeah, I think Friday is too soon also and i'd feel a lot better if we had longer, I think that's why I'm panicking so much! It's my mum's friend who has taken the dog after an elderly neighbour can no longer have him, so they are quite desperate to find him a forever home, especially as they have some big cats!! I'm going to try a mixture of equal behaviour which atleast doesnt seem to be hindering and trying to get them interested in eachother by spending today/tomoz/thursday separating them for periods of time and then playing in a group..my dog is really trying to get near him when they are sleeping and im just so proud that even though he's been shunned about 150 times he still keeps trying!! And i think the new ones being pretty good considering hes going through a lot...so quietly hoping..but thank you!! xxxx
 

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