there is something fundamentally wrong with my dad. He had me at 20, and I grew up without him because he had been abusing my mother. When I met with him last year, I thought he might have changed. There were many red flags and abusive and narcassistic behaviours, but his mother excused it and said he was only behaving like that because it was a big change in his life, and apologised to me. The behaviour stayed, and got worse. It got to a point where even his mother didnt believe that he was doing and saying certain things, and accused me of being a malicious liar, and she would be telling the police. he was horrible to his mother too. I caught him about to be violent towards my dog who didnt trust him to "train" her to be obedient towards him. She only listened to me and he had been told how to act around her. now his behaviour towards her didnt involve a slap on the nose or anything which wouldnt have been ok either but it was worse, he was wanting to take his anger out on the dog he had his shoe in mid air ready to properly whack her with it and would chase her around the house while she ran in fear. SHE IS A CHIHUAHUA so the impact would have been massive.
he only saw us for a lasted a few weeks with countless red flags in that time it also ended with him being arrested for sexual assault against me. I shouldve turned him away at the first red flag. I havent had contact with him since last year, we werent in contact for more than a few weeks and I'd gladly never speak to him again in my life.
He revealed hed owned lots of dogs another red flag why had he been getting so many of them then getting rid of them and insisted that his violent training methods were correct. twat.
hed also gone on to have a child who is now 7 with another woman abused her too and she allows limited contact with their child. she didnt know I exist and still doesnt. dont know her name or anything so cant tell her but I would.
I want him to be stopped from ever having contact with an animal or child again
he only saw us for a lasted a few weeks with countless red flags in that time it also ended with him being arrested for sexual assault against me. I shouldve turned him away at the first red flag. I havent had contact with him since last year, we werent in contact for more than a few weeks and I'd gladly never speak to him again in my life.
He revealed hed owned lots of dogs another red flag why had he been getting so many of them then getting rid of them and insisted that his violent training methods were correct. twat.
hed also gone on to have a child who is now 7 with another woman abused her too and she allows limited contact with their child. she didnt know I exist and still doesnt. dont know her name or anything so cant tell her but I would.
I want him to be stopped from ever having contact with an animal or child again
