On a mad one

Do you need to leave her in your bedroom? From what you say I'm assuming you're not shutting her in there, is that right? My dog only goes in my bedroom under supervision because he very energetically digs down through the quilt to make a nest to sleep on.

Teaching a dog what NOT to do isn't easy, particularly when they're young, and I've never found 'No' effective. Management, distraction and teaching a non-compatible behaviour (e.g. when she goes in your room she gets a reward for lying on HER bed) work much better. I'd also aim for a good 'off' command, and a good recall - again, taught positively, with rewards - so it'll be easier to get her off the bed without fuss when she jumps on it.

 

You could try covering the bed in a heavy throw or blanket, tucking it in all round so she can't dig in it. This didn't work for me, thanks to my dog's size and long limbs, but might for a smaller dog. I think they really want to get down to sheet/mattress level as it smells so much of their favourite people!

We keep a bit of old fireguard across the doorway during the day now so the air can still circulate. I wouldn't mind if I just had to tidy the bed each night, but as well as the occasional tears, there's nothing worse than getting into bed and realising it's all gritty and muddy because the dog had been on there with dirty paws!