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Not content with the prospect of becoming a grany next year, yesterday I became a mother-in-law! I'd really been worrying about how Jasper would cope, even though it was only a small do, with both sets of parents and a brother each. He didn't like the drive over there, and got the collie-wobbles in the car, but then was excited to be at a new place and discover DS2 and his girlfriend there, along with her parents & brother. I did a lot of staggering round in heels as he dragged me around the hotel and the grounds outside, sniffing everything.
He found the ceremony confusing - when we had to stand the registrar told him he didn't have to, but of course he thought we were going somewhere so he stood to, only for us to sit down again. I was very tempted to signal to him to bark at the 'Does anyone know of any lawful impediment?' bit but didn't want to confuse him further
Once he had settled into his surroundings he was a real star and chilled out. Oh, apart from when we were all still sitting with empty plates in front of us and he couldn't work out why he couldn't do his usual pre-cleaning of the plates.
We went for a walk over the fields later (we were in the heart of the New Forest). There were a couple of horses out there but J is OK with horses and I wondered about letting him off lead. It was a good job I didn't as I then realised one of the horses had a foal and it certainly piqued his interest - not sure if a foal looks more deer-like than an adult horse or if he recognises it as more vulnerable to potential prey even if it is the 'wrong' species. And then I think he suddenly realised that we were in the New Forest, that happy hunting ground we had to avoid for years because his brain would switch into hunting mode before we were even out of the car.
So all in all, he was a VERY good boy, and of course was well rewarded, with the usual 'no treats from the table while we're eating' rule going completely out of the window. He's worn out today though - he actually gave us a lie-in till 8.15am, which is unheard of, and is only now thinking about walkies. I'd better get on then...
He found the ceremony confusing - when we had to stand the registrar told him he didn't have to, but of course he thought we were going somewhere so he stood to, only for us to sit down again. I was very tempted to signal to him to bark at the 'Does anyone know of any lawful impediment?' bit but didn't want to confuse him further
Once he had settled into his surroundings he was a real star and chilled out. Oh, apart from when we were all still sitting with empty plates in front of us and he couldn't work out why he couldn't do his usual pre-cleaning of the plates.
We went for a walk over the fields later (we were in the heart of the New Forest). There were a couple of horses out there but J is OK with horses and I wondered about letting him off lead. It was a good job I didn't as I then realised one of the horses had a foal and it certainly piqued his interest - not sure if a foal looks more deer-like than an adult horse or if he recognises it as more vulnerable to potential prey even if it is the 'wrong' species. And then I think he suddenly realised that we were in the New Forest, that happy hunting ground we had to avoid for years because his brain would switch into hunting mode before we were even out of the car.
So all in all, he was a VERY good boy, and of course was well rewarded, with the usual 'no treats from the table while we're eating' rule going completely out of the window. He's worn out today though - he actually gave us a lie-in till 8.15am, which is unheard of, and is only now thinking about walkies. I'd better get on then...
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