I Really Want To Kill Them!

[dana]

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hey all

first i would like to thank everyone that sent me pm's and posts on the loss on my aunty.

i really need a rant guys so please bear with me, i just found out somthing from carols funeral that makes my blood boil. as some of u know carol was a christian scientist, one of these freaky cults that dont believe in treatment for any illness, her mum and sister are part of the same cult.

well carol broke with the teachings and had chemo and as a result her mum and sister refused to go to the funeral and have been hounding her husband (ron) for getting her to take the treatment tellin him she is going to hell cos of him!!!!! what is wrong with these people!!!

to add insult to injury her mum asked carol to bake her an xmas cake 3 days b4 she died, carol had to sit on a seat to make it cos she couldnt stand and by the time she had finished ronny had to carry her from the kitchen cos she was that exhausted! ron phoned the mum the day carol died to pass on the news and tell her the cake was ready, u know what the bitch said..." i dont want it, carol is dead now she means nothing to me"

are these people mad!! it rare i ever wish harm on someone but i could see the lot of them dead!!!!!

 

[Hula]

Im so sorry , it's bad enough when people you love die without you having to put up with this .

I don't know how these people can sleep at night . To behave in this way is truly evil . :rant:

 

[AnnSa]

Oh my :huggles:

 

[jinnyfizz]

Words fail me, Dana

I know the saying goes "there's nowt so queer as folk"

but the mental cruelty being inflicted by these two women

on the rest of the family is beyond belief!!!

I am so sorry that they are trying to taint Carol's memory

 

[Debbie b]

so sorry you are going through this bad enough with coping with a family bereavement, they say there is more out than in

hope carols hubby comes through this, thinking of you

 

[dana]

thanks guys im glad im not alone in thinking they are pure evil. poor ronny has nursed carol for over a year, watched the woman he loved and spent 30 years with waste away and suffer terribly. he should be left in peace now not have to suffer the torment of these 2 harridens!

i never thought people could be so wicked, i guess u live and learn dont u.

u know really hope that there is a god, and that he is watching this!

 

[meddling]

Oh Dana, how awful, why oh why can't people keep their mean and warped thoughts to theirselves.

Families can have a lot to answer for sometimes can't they, seemingly at times of grief especially.

I hope you can keep your mind focussed on the positive memories that you have of your Aunt.

 

[bertha]

As I don't know any one to do with this poor lady, I believe it should be each to his own. If you don't agree with things, in this situation just walk away, ignore the people who give you pain.

My father and my mother, [they divorced years ago] when they died neither of them wanted a funeral. We just abided by their wishes, when my father died he was just cremated, no service, nobody went to the crematorioum, I took his ashes back to Cheshire where he was born and lived and scattered them in his beloved garden.

Mother the same, only her ashes went to Mousehole, over looking the harbour. We know where they are, we followed their wishes. A lot of people were horrified, but it was the last thing we could do for them.

So, Dana, treat them with the contempt they deserve, don't go down the their level.

Just remember you Aunt and the happy times.

:huggles:

 

[Myfairlady]

Wow, thats really harsh isn't it...its amazing how some people who claim to follow a faith with Christian in the name could be so un-Christian in their treatment of others.

My gut instinct would be to get on the phone and give them a piece of my mind, but you know what...they are not worth it. Let them live any way they choose. When their day of reckoning comes I hope your Aunt is there to give them a piece of her mind.

You are grieving the loss of a loved one. Make sure you remember her with the fondest memories you have. The fact that she baked a cake a few days before she died because she promised she would goes to prove what a giving person she was. Remember her that way. Don't let these 'silly silly' women ruin it for you.

Remember, what goes around comes around and revenge is a dish best eaten cold. When the day comes that they need something you can politely tell them to go F**K themselves! (excuse my french but I feel its justified here!)

Be nice to yourself hun.

x

 

[lalena]

twisted, truly twisted and tbh how DARE they cause her husband such pain, in the name of religion? if there is a god, would he have allowed the invention of medicine, if he didnt want us to heal ourselves? well, before i go off on a completely different subject, i'll stop.

thinking of you and her husband, i'm sorry for your loss, and i hope he knows he did the right thing by her. doing what is good and right counts for much more than following beliefs blindly with spite and pettiness in the heart :luck:

 

[stormydog]

Firstly Dana sorry to read about your loss. Secondly i bloody loathe all these arsehole cults that seem to have came about outve nowhere ! What in fuxname is wrong in their enclosed tiny minds ?? I worked with a bloody joho (jehovahs witness) about 15 years ago who let his son die because he refused him a blood transfusion. Each to their own my bollox ! Thats wrong to do that no matter what stupid religion or what Idol you bow down to. Leading up to the lads death i had to be almost handcuffed from throttling this guy as his narrow mindedness and holyier than thouness despite his sons impending death was unbearable ! Burn all these Cults out was my attitude since, and as for johos...well we get them calling around here, well...i dont anymore as i always went straight into the transfusion thing.

john...believer in God and an Ulster Protestant till i die.

 

[scooby]

dana you ask whats wrong with these people, the answer IS there not square in the head, THEY CANT BE, anybody at all who turns down any life saving operations for any member of there family are just out & out assholes, like John am a great believer in the protestant faith.! But would give blood to anyone.!

 

[Cornish]

Oh how terrible



I am so sorry to hear the news of your friend

 

[urchin]

I can entirely empathise with you Dana - there's a big contingent in my family who are Jehova's Witnesses, which means they have some pretty dogmatic beliefs. It can make some of the most sensitive times in our family's life particularly tricky.

There have been children disowned and all kinds of harshness in the past, but I think now they have learned to live with the fact that the rest of us don't believe as they do.

Unfortunately, with these kinds of religions, the faithful who fall away are doubly damned and often treated accordingly - It seems like Carol's husband has been singled out for the blame for the decisions she made about her health and treatment.

I find it hard to understand why anyone would think treating a grieving husband so badly is the 'right' thing to do - the double-think that some religious people demonstrate absolutely astounds me at times.

 

[dana]

thanks for ur replys guys, its good to know there are (and i use the term very loosely ) normal folk out there that think the same as myself and my family. ive had some really touching pm's from members and i cant thank you all enough.

im not a great fan of any organised religion but ive always respected the right of folk to worship as they choose, but i can never condone a cult that wont allow u to fight for ur life. those bastards have taken a truley wonderful woman from us, carol was the kindest, warmest lady i have ever know, even if she was misguided in her beliefs.

once again guys thankyou for u support and good wishes, as well as some very sound advice

em