columbusrat ~ are you coping on your own?Hmmmm, after a bad night I think I'm going to backtrack a bit... It's a bit much to expect him to stay happily in his crate when he won't stay happily in the whole room, and a bit much to expect him to spend all night alone in his room if he can't manage a few minutes.
So tonight I'm going to sleep in his room with him, hopefully persuading him to sleep next to the mattress on a quilt or something rather than on it with me, because he's amazing at nicking more than his fair share! Then will gradually try moving me away from him, or him away from me, and working on the separation aspect during the day. I think it'll be easier for me to move away from his room than him start in our bedroom & move away from there. Mind you, I don't really mind where he sleeps (or where I sleep!) in the long run as long as I actually get some sleep! If I manage to persuade him his crate is a nice place to sleep all well and good but I don't feel that for us the long-term advantages of having a crate are worth a whole lot of stress now, while I'm also dealing with housetraining, bite inhibition, socialisation... oh, and trying to keep up with the normal household stuff! :ermm:
I feel that you are desperate for the 'easy' option but pups are hard work! Sleep deprivation is par for the course at first but if you give into whims then you are 'the slave' forever! He needs exercise - at least twice a day and mental stimulation! Out in the garden on a lead will not cut it. Exercise and discipline work hand in hand so get him out!!