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a week on Friday i had to go home to Scotland because my mum died suddenly,this Thursday gone we put my dear mum to rest,returned Thursday night early morning because of snow,i and my sister weren,t suppose to come back here till Friday.On Friday my stepson,s misses went into labour,I was told on the Wednesday before i left that she was having pains.I said it was just the baby getting fixed she was only 7 months preg.On the Thursday evening i got the phone call saying she was still having pains,not the best of days for me so i said jokingly i,ll be home tommorow,wait till i get back.Sure as hell my partners son came running round for me an his mum but i was in alone.I ran round and there she was trying to give birth.I wont go into details,but she was losing loads of blood,anyway she was rushed into hospitail,and straight down to theatre,the baby was delivered,it was 24 hours for mum and baby,if we had waited another 10 minutes both would of been dead.Good news is mum and baby are both fine,all the poor little thing said was i waited for you.Bless her.Anyway i gave my wee granson his name Harley,guess what after.He is 2 month prem and in scuba in Bolton maternity.But is doing fine.If it hadnt been for the snow,i would of returned on Friday.When i phoned my dad to make sure he was ok,guess what it was teaming down with rain.Didnt believe in unusual things happening,but i do now.Just cant wait till this year ends been the worst year in my life an one i wont never forget.Thanks to all who read this an give your family a xmas call even if youv,e had problems with them.Life is too short.Thank You. :huggles:

 

[trac]

a week on Friday i had to go home to Scotland because my mum died suddenly,this Thursday gone we put my dear mum to rest,returned Thursday night early morning because of snow,i and my sister weren,t suppose to come back here till Friday.On Friday my stepson,s misses went into labour,I was told on the Wednesday before i left that she was having pains.I said it was just the baby getting fixed she was only 7 months preg.On the Thursday evening i got the phone call saying she was still having pains,not the best of days for me so i said jokingly i,ll be home tommorow,wait till i get back.Sure as hell my partners son came running round for me an his mum but i was in alone.I ran round and there she was trying to give birth.I wont go into details,but she was losing loads of blood,anyway she was rushed into hospitail,and straight down to theatre,the baby was delivered,it was 24 hours for mum and baby,if we had waited another 10 minutes both would of been dead.Good news is mum and baby are both fine,all the poor little thing said was i waited for you.Bless her.Anyway i gave my wee granson his name Harley,guess what after.He is 2 month prem and in scuba in Bolton maternity.But is doing fine.If it hadnt been for the snow,i would of returned on Friday.When i phoned my dad to make sure he was ok,guess what it was teaming down with rain.Didnt believe in unusual things happening,but i do now.Just cant wait till this year ends been the worst year in my life an one i wont never forget.Thanks to all who read this an give your family a xmas call even if youv,e had problems with them.Life is too short.Thank You. :huggles:

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thanks for sharing that im so glad all is well with mum and baby :huggles: i would give my family a call if i thought for one minute it would be welcome ,but it wouldnt ,my family is the friends ive made on here :huggles:

 

[littlenell]

So sorry to read about your mum, I know how you feel, I lost mine last year and my dad the year before that. Trac is right about it being like a family on here - after mum died the first thing I did when I came home was tell people on here, I could say things that I couldnt say to anyone at home - I just couldnt get the words out . Life is strange isnt it? such a blessing that you came home early for little Harley - maybe your mum was watching over you all :huggles: :luck: :luck: Good Luck to you and your family

Tina

 

[affieluver]

a week on Friday i had to go home to Scotland because my mum died suddenly,this Thursday gone we put my dear mum to rest,returned Thursday night early morning because of snow,i and my sister weren,t suppose to come back here till Friday.On Friday my stepson,s misses went into labour,I was told on the Wednesday before i left that she was having pains.I said it was just the baby getting fixed she was only 7 months preg.On the Thursday evening i got the phone call saying she was still having pains,not the best of days for me so i said jokingly i,ll be home tommorow,wait till i get back.Sure as hell my partners son came running round for me an his mum but i was in alone.I ran round and there she was trying to give birth.I wont go into details,but she was losing loads of blood,anyway she was rushed into hospitail,and straight down to theatre,the baby was delivered,it was 24 hours for mum and baby,if we had waited another 10 minutes both would of been dead.Good news is mum and baby are both fine,all the poor little thing said was i waited for you.Bless her.Anyway i gave my wee granson his name Harley,guess what after.He is 2 month prem and in scuba in Bolton maternity.But is doing fine.If it hadnt been for the snow,i would of returned on Friday.When i phoned my dad to make sure he was ok,guess what it was teaming down with rain.Didnt believe in unusual things happening,but i do now.Just cant wait till this year ends been the worst year in my life an one i wont never forget.Thanks to all who read this an give your family a xmas call even if youv,e had problems with them.Life is too short.Thank You. :huggles:

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how very true no body knows how long you have so bridges should be built if you can im so glad you had a happy ending x :huggles:

 

[meddling]

So sorry to hear about your Mum, but very pleased to hear that the new tiny baby and his Mum are doing well, what an emotional roller-coaster you have been on :huggles:

 

[Janimal]

So sorry about your mum... :huggles:

as you say one sad event straight into a happy one...life isnt half strange...as I type this my OH is taking his mum almost 82 years of age in a Community Hospital for a few days, shes had a fall and cant manage on her own.

Its been a sressfull few days here....

Hope 2009 is a better year for you...Best wishes..

 

[hely]

Im sorry about your mum

hope the baby is doing well :luck:

 

[Bluebell]

a week on Friday i had to go home to Scotland because my mum died suddenly,this Thursday gone we put my dear mum to rest,returned Thursday night early morning because of snow,i and my sister weren,t suppose to come back here till Friday.On Friday my stepson,s misses went into labour,I was told on the Wednesday before i left that she was having pains.I said it was just the baby getting fixed she was only 7 months preg.On the Thursday evening i got the phone call saying she was still having pains,not the best of days for me so i said jokingly i,ll be home tommorow,wait till i get back.Sure as hell my partners son came running round for me an his mum but i was in alone.I ran round and there she was trying to give birth.I wont go into details,but she was losing loads of blood,anyway she was rushed into hospitail,and straight down to theatre,the baby was delivered,it was 24 hours for mum and baby,if we had waited another 10 minutes both would of been dead.Good news is mum and baby are both fine,all the poor little thing said was i waited for you.Bless her.Anyway i gave my wee granson his name Harley,guess what after.He is 2 month prem and in scuba in Bolton maternity.But is doing fine.If it hadnt been for the snow,i would of returned on Friday.When i phoned my dad to make sure he was ok,guess what it was teaming down with rain.Didnt believe in unusual things happening,but i do now.Just cant wait till this year ends been the worst year in my life an one i wont never forget.Thanks to all who read this an give your family a xmas call even if youv,e had problems with them.Life is too short.Thank You. :huggles:

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thanks for sharing that im so glad all is well with mum and baby :huggles: i would give my family a call if i thought for one minute it would be welcome ,but it wouldnt ,my family is the friends ive made on here :huggles:

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Sorry to hear about your mum lost a work friend last week to cancer

so glad mum and baby are doing well :thumbsup:

And Trac sorry to hear about you and your family, but time is a healer, sometimes it takes longer for some :thumbsup:

 

[pepa]

so sorry about your mum.and so happy about your new arrival :luck: to you all.

[SIZE=14pt]merry christmas[/SIZE]

 

[jinnyfizz]

Oh bless you, what a rough time you have had :huggles:

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mum but to have a new

baby in the family is wonderful :wub:

Happy Christmas and roll on a better 2009 for you :thumbsup:

 

[whippetmad]

a week on Friday i had to go home to Scotland because my mum died suddenly,this Thursday gone we put my dear mum to rest,returned Thursday night early morning because of snow,i and my sister weren,t suppose to come back here till Friday.On Friday my stepson,s misses went into labour,I was told on the Wednesday before i left that she was having pains.I said it was just the baby getting fixed she was only 7 months preg.On the Thursday evening i got the phone call saying she was still having pains,not the best of days for me so i said jokingly i,ll be home tommorow,wait till i get back.Sure as hell my partners son came running round for me an his mum but i was in alone.I ran round and there she was trying to give birth.I wont go into details,but she was losing loads of blood,anyway she was rushed into hospitail,and straight down to theatre,the baby was delivered,it was 24 hours for mum and baby,if we had waited another 10 minutes both would of been dead.Good news is mum and baby are both fine,all the poor little thing said was i waited for you.Bless her.Anyway i gave my wee granson his name Harley,guess what after.He is 2 month prem and in scuba in Bolton maternity.But is doing fine.If it hadnt been for the snow,i would of returned on Friday.When i phoned my dad to make sure he was ok,guess what it was teaming down with rain.Didnt believe in unusual things happening,but i do now.Just cant wait till this year ends been the worst year in my life an one i wont never forget.Thanks to all who read this an give your family a xmas call even if youv,e had problems with them.Life is too short.Thank You. :huggles:

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thanks for sharing that im so glad all is well with mum and baby :huggles: i would give my family a call if i thought for one minute it would be welcome ,but it wouldnt ,my family is the friends ive made on here :huggles:

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I think we are both in the same boat here Tracy had a big fall out with my Mum and Dad(the ones who brought me up) but the good news i have been back seeing my blood Mum a year now,its all complicatd stuff.

So sorry you loss your Mum,how very sad,glad mother and baby are doing ok :huggles:

 

[BlueNoise]

So sorry to read you have lost your mum I lost mine 8 months ago

But its very good news about your new grandson :huggles:

Lets hope 2009 is a better year :thumbsup:

 

[trac]

a week on Friday i had to go home to Scotland because my mum died suddenly,this Thursday gone we put my dear mum to rest,returned Thursday night early morning because of snow,i and my sister weren,t suppose to come back here till Friday.On Friday my stepson,s misses went into labour,I was told on the Wednesday before i left that she was having pains.I said it was just the baby getting fixed she was only 7 months preg.On the Thursday evening i got the phone call saying she was still having pains,not the best of days for me so i said jokingly i,ll be home tommorow,wait till i get back.Sure as hell my partners son came running round for me an his mum but i was in alone.I ran round and there she was trying to give birth.I wont go into details,but she was losing loads of blood,anyway she was rushed into hospitail,and straight down to theatre,the baby was delivered,it was 24 hours for mum and baby,if we had waited another 10 minutes both would of been dead.Good news is mum and baby are both fine,all the poor little thing said was i waited for you.Bless her.Anyway i gave my wee granson his name Harley,guess what after.He is 2 month prem and in scuba in Bolton maternity.But is doing fine.If it hadnt been for the snow,i would of returned on Friday.When i phoned my dad to make sure he was ok,guess what it was teaming down with rain.Didnt believe in unusual things happening,but i do now.Just cant wait till this year ends been the worst year in my life an one i wont never forget.Thanks to all who read this an give your family a xmas call even if youv,e had problems with them.Life is too short.Thank You. :huggles:

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thanks for sharing that im so glad all is well with mum and baby :huggles: i would give my family a call if i thought for one minute it would be welcome ,but it wouldnt ,my family is the friends ive made on here :huggles:

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Sorry to hear about your mum lost a work friend last week to cancer

so glad mum and baby are doing well :thumbsup:

And Trac sorry to hear about you and your family, but time is a healer, sometimes it takes longer for some :thumbsup:

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its been 5 years

 

[staffygirl]

I want to thank everyone from the bottom of my heart,thank you for your support,the last time my mum saw me i was walking out her front door,going for a packet of fags i had gone to Scotland from Bolton to take my dad to get his regular visit at the hospital,they had some trouble with my brother a few nights before,he was told he wouldnt be driving their car again,but guess what after 3 an 1/2 hrs drive there,guess who had the car out,this was only the end of this summer.Theres alot of history,but that is personal for just now.There is no book written on how to be the perfect parent nor a book for the perfect son or daughter.But even for one more time i,d love to phone my mum,even if it was the words, i dont want to talk to you.Just to hear her voice again.I am not proud i held within me a lot of hatred,or so i thought,but once their gone their gone,so no matter how hurt you are send them a note or card,it dont matter if you never get a reply.We all think we are strong but deep down we,re not,we all cry.I learned my lesson the hard way.At the end of the day you only have one mum,so please swollow your pride and stubborness,dont just let them go cos you could carry alot of guilt afterwards.Thanks to everyone :huggles:

 

[Hula]

I'm so sorry for your loss

Hoping the new baby and Mum continue to do well :luck:

 

[staffygirl]

Oh forgot got to hold my granson today he is of C.P.A.C.K and can hold his own breath,his last lot of milk was 6mm,only got to hold him for 5 minutes so he didnt get cold but it meant the world to me.Will put a pic up tomoz.Trac keep your chin up i didnt get in contact for 6 years with my family. :luck: girl.An yes this site is like a family cos we all have ups and downs and we all need each other,i am their for you if ever you want to talk. :huggles:

 

[trac]

Oh forgot got to hold my granson today he is of C.P.A.C.K and can hold his own breath,his last lot of milk was 6mm,only got to hold him for 5 minutes so he didnt get cold but it meant the world to me.Will put a pic up tomoz.Trac keep your chin up i didnt get in contact for 6 years with my family. :luck: girl.An yes this site is like a family cos we all have ups and downs and we all need each other,i am their for you if ever you want to talk. :huggles:

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thanks for your pm :thumbsup:

 

[staffygirl]

Your more than welcome and thank you very much,have yourself a lovely xmas,same to everyone else. :huggles:

 

[meddling]

Oh forgot got to hold my granson today he is of C.P.A.C.K and can hold his own breath,his last lot of milk was 6mm,only got to hold him for 5 minutes so he didnt get cold but it meant the world to me.Will put a pic up tomoz.Trac keep your chin up i didnt get in contact for 6 years with my family. :luck: girl.An yes this site is like a family cos we all have ups and downs and we all need each other,i am their for you if ever you want to talk. :huggles:

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That must have been an incredibly special but emotional 5 minutes for you, hope you get another longer cuddle for christmas :thumbsup: