We are having a problem with Tolly and are having to think the unthinkable and consider rehoming him before somedog gets hurt, unless we can sort things with help from our K9 friends )
Our pack of 4 boys consists of
Wilbur, 4 year old mini wire dachsie, very shy and retiring, epileptic, neutered aged 1+
Tolly, 2 1/4 year old mini wire dachsie, can be fearful around strange people and dogs but also pretty bolshie, neutered aged 1+
Finn, 20mth old whippet, bouncy but not particularly assertive, entire
Tyg, 6mth old whippet, very bouncy, potential top dog, entire
We've lost two old guys in the last 2 years so the pack has seen a fair few changes. All the dogs are and always have been allowed on the sofas but only with permission. They aren't indulged - we practise tough love around here - but they are adored and they know it. Finn is my favourite though and although I try to hide it I wonder if Tolly knows that.
In the last four months, so sort of since Digby our previous top dog died, Tolly has become increasingly aggressive towards Finn. Almost anything Finn does can set him off. Finn might start a rough game with Tyg, or approach the sofa when Tolly is sitting on it, or pick up a chew ... and Tolly flies at him growling and/or barking and starts trying to pick a fight. Finn turns away, making it clear that he doesn't want trouble, and Tolly follows him and keeps putting himself in front of Finn and acting threateningly, hackles up on occasion, as if he's trying to pick a fight. However often Finn turns away Tolly follows. Once or twice when cornered Finn has fought back but Tolly is always the instigator (although Finn does play ambush him sometimes out on walks, but that looks and sounds totally different and Tolly seems not to mind). We started out leaving them to sort it for themselves but lately we've had to intervene, and this can happen again and again through the day. That said any attempt to remove Tolly from the situation makes him worse. He really is spoiling for a fight. I suspect what Tolly really needs is a major ding dong with Finn to decide who's boss but it would be MAJOR and I can't allow that and Finn doesn't want it.
Tolly is a very wired mini wire, very tense, always on the alert, goes off like a rocket when a leaf drops a mile away ... so he's got issues anyway. But poor Finn is really beginning to suffer and I think it's only time before we're looking at significant injuries rather than the few minor nips he's received so far. As it is I daren't leave them alone together, even for five minutes.
I won't list all the things we've tried to date- all sorts, some on the recommendation of a professional behaviourist, some suggested by our vet - as I would really like to hear of anything and everything others think we could do, so please suggest away.
Hoping you can help because I really don't want to be posting in a few weeks asking for help to rehome Tolly, that would be heartbreaking.
Annie
Our pack of 4 boys consists of
Wilbur, 4 year old mini wire dachsie, very shy and retiring, epileptic, neutered aged 1+
Tolly, 2 1/4 year old mini wire dachsie, can be fearful around strange people and dogs but also pretty bolshie, neutered aged 1+
Finn, 20mth old whippet, bouncy but not particularly assertive, entire
Tyg, 6mth old whippet, very bouncy, potential top dog, entire
We've lost two old guys in the last 2 years so the pack has seen a fair few changes. All the dogs are and always have been allowed on the sofas but only with permission. They aren't indulged - we practise tough love around here - but they are adored and they know it. Finn is my favourite though and although I try to hide it I wonder if Tolly knows that.
In the last four months, so sort of since Digby our previous top dog died, Tolly has become increasingly aggressive towards Finn. Almost anything Finn does can set him off. Finn might start a rough game with Tyg, or approach the sofa when Tolly is sitting on it, or pick up a chew ... and Tolly flies at him growling and/or barking and starts trying to pick a fight. Finn turns away, making it clear that he doesn't want trouble, and Tolly follows him and keeps putting himself in front of Finn and acting threateningly, hackles up on occasion, as if he's trying to pick a fight. However often Finn turns away Tolly follows. Once or twice when cornered Finn has fought back but Tolly is always the instigator (although Finn does play ambush him sometimes out on walks, but that looks and sounds totally different and Tolly seems not to mind). We started out leaving them to sort it for themselves but lately we've had to intervene, and this can happen again and again through the day. That said any attempt to remove Tolly from the situation makes him worse. He really is spoiling for a fight. I suspect what Tolly really needs is a major ding dong with Finn to decide who's boss but it would be MAJOR and I can't allow that and Finn doesn't want it.
Tolly is a very wired mini wire, very tense, always on the alert, goes off like a rocket when a leaf drops a mile away ... so he's got issues anyway. But poor Finn is really beginning to suffer and I think it's only time before we're looking at significant injuries rather than the few minor nips he's received so far. As it is I daren't leave them alone together, even for five minutes.
I won't list all the things we've tried to date- all sorts, some on the recommendation of a professional behaviourist, some suggested by our vet - as I would really like to hear of anything and everything others think we could do, so please suggest away.
Hoping you can help because I really don't want to be posting in a few weeks asking for help to rehome Tolly, that would be heartbreaking.
Annie