Heartbroken

[em21]

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Hi everyone,

I haven't posted for a long time. Hope you and your poochies are all well. I'm afraid the reason I have not been online is due to a relationship breakdown, everything is amicable but it has had a huge effect on everything especially my little Dudley I will have to move out soon and find a place on my own. Houses and rent is still expensive in the area that I live in and there is no way I can afford to live alone here so I will have to move out the area which means my parents will not be able to help me with Dudley. Also I need to get a car as mine was stolen... in order to pay for all these things I will have to work every hour that god sends I think and my poor Dudley will be alone far too much... Even if I got a dog walker, I work 13 hour shifts, it's just not fair is it?? This is absolutely awful, I know Dudley is not going to have the quality of life he deserves with me and that is so hard to admit but i'm trying to think of what is best for him, it would be selfish of me to keep him just because i was upset at having him rehomed. I have pondered over this for weeks now and I think it's only fair to rehome him. This is just the hardest decision I have ever had to make and I feel like such a failure. I will be contacting his breeder this week to see if she wants to rehome him or if she's happy for me to do it, I keep putting it off. I'm sorry, what a horrible post I love Duds to bits but I have to admit, I never imagined a decision like this would be so heartbreaking :'( On a brighter note, he is fabulous, full of energy and as loving as ever.

Emma xxx

 

[kirsty]

How awful for you :huggles: Hope you find Dudley a great home :luck: :luck: :luck:

 

[jinnyfizz]

Hallo Emma.

I'm so sorry to hear about this, what a terrible situation to find yourself in

Here's some hugs for you and Dudley :huggles: :huggles: :huggles: :huggles:

and if you contact beisha on here, she is looking for a whippet companion for her

young whippet. She's near Edinburgh.

It could be a wonderful home for Dudley, good luck :luck: :luck: :thumbsup:

 

[rls22]

I am so sorry to hear this Emma - I hope you are coping ok.

I can't even begin to imagine what a heart wrenching decision this has been for you and I admire you for putting Dudley's needs before your own.

Wishing you all the luck in the world in finding him a wonderful new home. He has turned into a gorgeous boy. :huggles:

 

[em21]

I am so sorry to hear this Emma - I hope you are coping ok.I can't even begin to imagine what a heart wrenching decision this has been for you and I admire you for putting Dudley's needs before your own. 

Wishing you all the luck in the world in finding him a wonderful new home.  He has turned into a gorgeous boy.  :huggles:

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Thankyou Rachel, it has been so terrible, I just cry constantly, even bubbling at work now. I was so determined that I would never o this but it's not fair on him. Teehee he's a handsome poochie... i'm biased though :huggles:

Emma xxx

 

[em21]

Hallo Emma.I'm so sorry to hear about this, what a terrible situation to find yourself in

Here's some hugs for you and Dudley :huggles:   :huggles:   :huggles:   :huggles:

and if you contact beisha on here, she is looking for a whippet companion for her

young whippet.  She's near Edinburgh.

It could be a wonderful home for Dudley, good luck :luck:   :luck:   :thumbsup:

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Thanks Jane, if I rehome him (if breeder ok with it) I know hw will get a great home on k9

Emma xxx

 

[k4tie-d]

oh emma im so sorry to hear this :huggles: :huggles: :huggles:

sending you lots of love for you and dudley :luck: :luck: :luck:

 

[Rosie]

So sorry for your news . Go easy on yourself, a break up is so tough at the best of times but I can't imagine how awful it must be to have to rehome Dudley as well.

:luck: :luck: with finding him a great home, like you say if it's someone on here it will be a lovely home and you could stay in touch :huggles: :huggles:

 

[trac]

emma im so sorry to hear about this sending you and Dudley lots of :huggles: :huggles: :huggles: i have pm you :thumbsup:

 

[Hula]

Please don't think you are a failure . Sometimes things happen we have no control over . If you have to rehome your gorgeous boy maybe someone on here will give him a lovely home and you will feel better when you know he is happy :huggles:

 

[FifeJillandIan]

So sorry you are going through such a difficult time. :huggles: I have to agree with previous posts - it's a credit to you that you are putting Dudley's needs ahead of your own. It must be terribly hard and shows just how much you love him. :wub: I hope you can find him a home with a K9er so you'll be able to keep in touch and see his progress.

Good luck and I hope 2009 brings you peace and happiness :luck: :luck: :luck:

Jill

x

 

[affieluver]

you are truly a fab owner any dog would be lucky to have you as its owner :huggles:

you have made the hardest decision any dog owner will ever make and whatever happens im sure you will find dudley the home he so deserves so stay strong and i really hope next year is a bit brighter for you thinking of you kelly x :huggles:

 

[Nicola]

So sorry to hear this. Good luck with re-homing Dudley. :luck: Good luck with your own arrangements too. :luck: :luck:

 

[whippetmad]

Hi Emma,i,m so very sorry with whats happened Its a very differcult position to be in.I hope you find the right home for him :luck: :luck: All the best lots of :huggles: :huggles: :huggles: :huggles: :huggles:

 

[June Jonigk]

So sad for you Emma, I can't begin to imagine how you must be feeling What area are you in? I was thinking that if someone from K9 gives him a home, you could still see how he is doing, and maybe have a visit or two later down the line.

Good luck with rehoming him, and hugs :huggles: for you at this very emotional time xx

 

[em21]

Thankyou all for the supportive comments, i'm really touched :b I would love to find a k9 home for Dudley, providing his breeder is happy with me rehoming him. It would be lovely to keep in contact and see his progress. I'm in East Yorkshire June, just outside Hull. Even if we rehome him a distance from here I would still visit him time to time, providing the new owners are happy with this.

Emma xxx

 

[maggie217]

Emma

I am so sorry to read your post. I will pm you

Pauline

 

[Trish]

oh so sorry to read this emma im thinking of you at this difficult time :huggles:

 

[peppermint lady]

how very sad for you, sadly things happen in life that are out of our control

dont feel bad on Dudley im sure a very special K9 home can be found for him :huggles:

 

[beisha]

what a horrible situation to be in my heart goes out to you.....

i have pm'ed you

xxx