Very sorry to learn of your sad news Nikki. My thoughts are with you and yours.
Very best wishes
Gill
Very best wishes
Gill
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Thinking of you at this sad time Niki,
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Deepest sympathies from us too 
Thinking of you at this sad time.
RIP Val
Thinking of you at this sad time.RIP Val
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So sorry to hear about the loss of your Mum Nik - such a tough thing to handle - may she rest in peace
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Thinking of you Nikki
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Thank you all so much. :huggles:
Mums cremation is tomorrow & i am dreading it, i cant go to bed & am trying to keep busy.
This last week has all seemed so unreal.
I can not get my head round life without her. She was not only my mum but my best friend. It has always been the 2 of us & it seems like now my world has been ripped apart.
The dogs are missing her too & little Poppy sits at the bottom of the stairs crying for her.
Because of the dogs i have to function but to be honest if it was not for them i wouldnt.
Tomorrow seems so final.
Mums cremation is tomorrow & i am dreading it, i cant go to bed & am trying to keep busy.
This last week has all seemed so unreal.
I can not get my head round life without her. She was not only my mum but my best friend. It has always been the 2 of us & it seems like now my world has been ripped apart.
The dogs are missing her too & little Poppy sits at the bottom of the stairs crying for her.
Because of the dogs i have to function but to be honest if it was not for them i wouldnt.
Tomorrow seems so final.
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Hi Nicki
So sorry to hear of the loss of your Mum
Will be thinking of you today.
Fiona
So sorry to hear of the loss of your Mum
Will be thinking of you today.
Fiona
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Ever so sorry Nikki about your mum, i dunno what else to say, except you are in my thoughts
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So sorry Nikki , losing a mum and a best friend at the same time must be too much to bare
thinking of you today esp .
Jackie
thinking of you today esp .
Jackie
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So sorry you lost your Mum
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so sorry to hear this
take care nikki :huggles:
RIP VAL
take care nikki :huggles:
RIP VAL
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Just came accross this post Nikki. I am so sorry for your loss
I know exactly what you are going through as I lost my mum just before Xmas, two weeks after her 62nd birthday. She had been terminally ill for such a long time and was in terrible discomfort and pain and finally gave up her brave fight. I must say I am finding it incredibly hard to deal with, I constantly think about her every day that goes in. It has been 6 months now but it just feels unbelievable that I am never going to see her again or hear her voice. It is such a massive void in my life. Sometimes I go to pick up the phone to tell her something and then it sinks in she's not here, it's a weird horrible feeling. She was also my best friend I confided in her , asked her advice and trusted her 100%. I looked after her when she became too ill to look after herself. I know Megan (my dog) misses her too, as when I go over to her house Megan runs up stairs to her bedroom as soon as we go in, to look for her.
Take care of yourself and once again I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts at this incredibly sad time :huggles:
I know exactly what you are going through as I lost my mum just before Xmas, two weeks after her 62nd birthday. She had been terminally ill for such a long time and was in terrible discomfort and pain and finally gave up her brave fight. I must say I am finding it incredibly hard to deal with, I constantly think about her every day that goes in. It has been 6 months now but it just feels unbelievable that I am never going to see her again or hear her voice. It is such a massive void in my life. Sometimes I go to pick up the phone to tell her something and then it sinks in she's not here, it's a weird horrible feeling. She was also my best friend I confided in her , asked her advice and trusted her 100%. I looked after her when she became too ill to look after herself. I know Megan (my dog) misses her too, as when I go over to her house Megan runs up stairs to her bedroom as soon as we go in, to look for her.
Take care of yourself and once again I am so sorry for your loss and you are in my thoughts at this incredibly sad time :huggles:
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Thank you all so much for your messages.
Mums cremation was yesterday & to be honest it just all seemed so unreal. We took her little one Poppy with us as she never got a chance to say goodbye to her & i still think Poppy thinks mum is coming home.
It was almost like being in a bubble & watching it all but having no control over what was happening. The day passed in a blur.
I still expected to come home & find her sitting in her favourite chair. To know i will never see her again or be able to talk to her is just so unbearable & i cant cope with it. I have to think that she is maybe still in the hospital & will come home when she is better, its this thought that gets me through each day.
To lose a husband or wife must be awful but i guess life goes on people remarry & find happiness again but you can never replace your mum.
Sorry to ramble on but i think those of you who have lost your mums & were as close as i was to mine like Kirsty you will know the devastation you feel.
Thank you all again.
Mums cremation was yesterday & to be honest it just all seemed so unreal. We took her little one Poppy with us as she never got a chance to say goodbye to her & i still think Poppy thinks mum is coming home.
It was almost like being in a bubble & watching it all but having no control over what was happening. The day passed in a blur.
I still expected to come home & find her sitting in her favourite chair. To know i will never see her again or be able to talk to her is just so unbearable & i cant cope with it. I have to think that she is maybe still in the hospital & will come home when she is better, its this thought that gets me through each day.
To lose a husband or wife must be awful but i guess life goes on people remarry & find happiness again but you can never replace your mum.
Sorry to ramble on but i think those of you who have lost your mums & were as close as i was to mine like Kirsty you will know the devastation you feel.
Thank you all again.
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Ive just seen this...
Im so very sorry for your loss Nina...
Im so very sorry for your loss Nina...
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So so sorry to hear about your Mum Nik, our thoughts are with you at this sad time.
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Thanks Rachel, i just kind of struggle from day to day.Lanakeshena said:
Losing someone you love is hard
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